I'm sorry that it took so long for me to answer
but there is bad internet conditions here
I want thank very much Sickman for sharing this solution
suspend is working like a charm after the fix

, but hibernate still has a problem when it wakes up, everything gets weird(cursor is a weird box and the system hangs)

the X server should be restarted to solve the issue or maybe there is something wrong with my system
but the real problem now is that the Display manager won't start, and some services fail to start on startup ( cgconfig, vbox services ,wlmproxy and ctrlproxy)
I have to use single user mode then
then I login and
NOTICE: the startup problem may be caused by something else
any solution or a clue to fix startup/hibernate problems, it's annoying
I think this one is easy to solve, the only thing I need is a clue
thank you again Sickman ^_^